Manifesting the love of your life to come back and forgive you?

[Tewwwq]

Bullshit or possible?

I am pretty cut up about it.

Why don't you just send them a message or call them and apologise?

That will probably work better than sitting at home imagining things.

Yeah that sounds like nonsense

I’m no mage, this is something only mages can answer 🙃

If you cheated/ treated him badly/ whatever , either apologise and leave it at that, or just leave them in peace

What did you do that you want forgiveness for?

Or you could just accept responsibility for the consequences of what you've done.

This is not something I would do at night time as dont tend to make the best decisions when I am tired. Why don't you sleep on it and then talk it through with a trusted friend? Not advice I've ever taken I might add

Manifesting things isn't real. Sorry you are upset about your break-up though.

You can't manifest someone else - little thing called free will. If it's meant to be then it will work out, trust in that.

This.
You can try and fix it but manifesting stuff is just made up.. it's not real.

What did you do?

Leave them in peace, behave better next time.

What does it mean? How do you manifest someone else's actions? Is this a current buzz word?

Another way of wording your question (based on the limited inof we have of course) is:

'I did something wrong and my partner left me. I now want to control them virtually to force them back to me, even though consciously they don't want to be with me.'

Is that what you really want? Can you see that, even if 'manifesting' was a thing (it's not), it would be horribly unethical and controlling?

I think that if you're that cut up about things that believing this will help, yeah go ahead. It won't work. If you've done things that require forgiveness, focus on those things and how you can learn from it.
Leave your ex alone though.

Any minute now this thread is going to manifest a spam bot advertising the services of a with doctor.

OP why don't you start a thread explaining what led to your relationship breakdown and asking for advice on whether you should try to repair things.

You cannot manifest changes in other people's feelings. People have free will.

I do believe you can manifest opportunities. Opportunities that may or may not pay off depending on various factors such as whether or not you sieze them. But manifesting cannot make someone forgive you if they do not wish to.

I do belive it can be possible to engineer things like chance meetings. Like, when you are thinking about someone and thry happen to walk past you in the street. I think the world has a synchronicity like that. That would be an example of manifesting an opportunity. But opportunities have limitations.

Manifest? Do you know what it means?!

@Tewwwq OP, I was into this all last year. I even paid for coaching and courses to "manifest your SP back" (specific person). I was heavily involved in it until I scared myself because I was going through a bad time and thought that those thoughts I was having would manifest too.

I ended up getting back with my bf, because we spoke every single day and tbh I worked very hard at amending things. I did try to "manifest" others to test it worked, and it worked with some people and not others. It's purely confirmation bias, my brain just decided to remember the things I had manifested and not things I hadn't.

Above is the voice of reason.

If you haven’t apologised and made amends (it sounds like you haven’t), why would any power or force bring that person back to you? And why would you want to put this person through that if the original problem was never resolved? Are you thinking of them or just yourself?

I had to Google it.

Do you mean this?
www.yourtango.com/2016285373/eight-steps-manifest-any-wish-into-coming-true

Because that. That. Is weapons grade bullshit.

Whether you manifest it or not there is a 50-50 chance it might happen and when it doesn't happen there will be a 101 reasons why it didn't come true... such as not manifesting right or not believing it or wanting badly enough or the universe has other plans....also I thought these witchy magical things state that they don't apply to changing a person's free will because that then is in the realms of black magic or something.....
If you're looking at things like that it sounds you're quite vulnerable and might be taken advantage of your desperation and pain. Apologise to them sincerely and after that you just have to give it to God, universe or whatever you believe in. You have to respect people's own choices and timelines for forgiveness (or not).

What’s with all the bot-esque threads about this dated, self indulgent fad?

daydream all you want, it’s fine. Thinking your daydreams can make someone do something is…

Try a better hobby.

I think it's because of the rise of LOA & manifestation. I was pretty deep in it too. It's very harmful.

It's deeply unpleasant.

Either it's bullshit, and raising false hope in suggestable people (true) or it's not and you are using the universe to force someone to do something against their interests, even though you acknowledge you fucked up <shudder>

Even if you believe this nonsense, it's awful.