I slept with my husband's friend

[clovermeadow]

My husband I split up 7 years ago. About 6 months after that, I slept with his friend.

About two years ago, my husband and I started to rekindle our relationship. We are now back together and things are soooo good.

However, I feel constant guilt about what happened with his friend. I want to tell him, to ease my guilt. But is that selfish of me as I know he will be devastated? It will also ruin his friendship. I wish, wish, wish I had never done it.

I’d be worried about who the friend has told or will tell

Personally I would just stay quiet. Just something to live with.

I wouldn't tell him as it won't change anything now, but I disagree it's because you did nothing wrong and I doubt the posters saying that would feel the same if their husbands slept with their friends when on a break. I personally think things like this should be out of bounds even if you were separated at the time out of basic respect for the other person.

How close is this friend?

I fucked my ex husbands friend after we split up. I meant to take it to the grace but the nosey prick logged into my Facebook and found out 😬

it wasn’t ideal but we’re all adults and are all over it now. I never intended to get back with my ex though.

in this case I would keep quiet.