I posted here a couple of weeks back. Mr partner had falsely accused me out of the blue of lying over something that was bizarre and didn’t make any sense, questioning me repeatedly over something I posted to a charity group I was on about a relatives death, when I fully explained to him I would be sharing it, and didn’t understand the drama surrounding it. It’s not the first time. He has accused me of various behaviours that are completely false and not who I am at all. I have tolerated it without apologies to a long time. I do not question him. After this incident he broke up with me, and left me reeling, after things had been so good between us. I felt suspicious as one thing I’ve had to deal with in the relationship is incessant talk about the attractiveness of other women and his “struggles” giving him fantasies to keep him content and generally just wishing he would have enough maturity to put the relationship first. Anyway, the other day I said to him that I’ve been nothing but upfront with him since day one of this relationship, having nothing to ever hide from him, and nothing I wouldn’t share with him, that his accusations baffle me. I then proceeded to do what I’ve never done in the relationship. I questioned him about secret keeping and inconsistent stories he has told over the last couple of years. He had told me in the past that if a woman tried it on with him he would tell her that he would love to sleep with her but wouldn’t- because of making the right choice, nothing to do with me, but with his beliefs. He told me that’s not happened since we got together. Anyway through questioning turns out it happened with 3 different women in the last year alone, with one asking him to come back to hers “for some fun” and another following him around to every charity event until apparently she got the hint and rarely goes now. So apparently he sees these three women “rarely” and sees no problem with having told them he fancies them also, and no problem with not sharing that stuff with me. This is coming from a man who said he would “struggle in tempting situations with sexy women” - surely he opens the door further by reciprocating and keeping it a secret. I want opinions on all of this please, whatever your thoughts are on this. Currently he’s giving me the silent treatment as I said his breaking up with me over his own false allegations has nothing on the fact I would never marry a man who engages with women this way. I don’t really see any way forward now as he doesn’t seem to care at all about my perspective on this. And by the way, all of this is coming from a man who has in times past accused me of fancying someone I saw once on a zoom (lie) and bought it up repeatedly for a good year after, and said I stand too close to people and that titillates men. I seriously am on of these individuals that feel sexual attraction when emotion is involved and have had eyes only for him the last two years and I don’t hug men, flirt etc. I imagine this is projection. Please give thoughts