So I've been with my partner for 20 years. We went through a rough patch about 8 months ago, but things improved after several months. I am pretty sure we're back to normal now.
He's joined a popular established band (he's a lead guitar player/vocals) the band (not famous) he's joined has a female singer. She's attractive. I've never had any trust issues before, ever. But when I was chatting with my partner a couple of days ago, he was talking about this woman as he does with the band. When he blushed!. Then he kind of looked away like he knew he was blushing. Neither of us mentioned it. But now, I can't stop thinking about it. There's only one reason why he'd blush as far as I'm concerned. I've been panicking ever since. He wasn't talking about anything embarrassing. Just that her picture was in the local newspaper and about that.
They are going on a mini tour of the UK in 3 months, which means nights away, for 4 weeks. I am beside myself. I'm not normally the jealous type.
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Why did he blush?
Lucy Long Socks · 06/07/2022 14:31
cafcass123 · 06/07/2022 14:41
Blushing isn't always a sign of guilt. He might think that you think he fancies her. That's enough to produce a blush in some cases.
cafcass123 · 06/07/2022 14:41
Blushing isn't always a sign of guilt. He might think that you think he fancies her. That's enough to produce a blush in some cases.
Pinkbonbon · 07/07/2022 17:00
Does she know he is married?
My first plan of action would be to go to his gigs and be fairly affectionate with him whilst there. Just to gage both their reactions. If she seems upset or angry then you'll know he has been telling her you two are actually on the out or some similar bs. Same if he seems annoyed at you.
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Pinkbonbon · 07/07/2022 17:00
Does she know he is married?
My first plan of action would be to go to his gigs and be fairly affectionate with him whilst there. Just to gage both their reactions. If she seems upset or angry then you'll know he has been telling her you two are actually on the out or some similar bs. Same if he seems annoyed at you.
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