What would you respond to this ?

[stillvicarinatutu]

After a recent hurtful break up I got chatting to a guy (online) through a friend .

He is extremely good looking but made it clear that he isn't monogamous, but could offer a fwb type arrangement. He asked if I'd like to meet and said if I wasn't feeling it it would go no further. I'd seen him on a few sites including hook up sites . He told me last weekend he'd met a couple in a hotel for sex .

I said I'd meet him next week . (Why? I don't know )

He then messaged saying he wanted a slut in the bedroom, hold ups , heels etc . Ok . I'm not averse to that .

But then he messaged, saying he's arranged for another guy to join us along with a run down of what they'd do to me - reads like a terrible porn thing with me basically being used by them both in every way imaginable. He seems to think I'd enjoy this experience.

I haven't yet responded. He has seemingly arranged this without asking , without consent , and we haven't even met .
Clearly I am not going through with this arrangement. Even if I was into that kind of thing - he's not asked ,
Do I just block and ignore ? Or respond . I don't even know what to say .
Wtf .

I'd send a laughing emoji then block the fool!!

“Oh do fuck off 🤣” and then block on everything

"No chance, bye" and block!

God knows what they'd actually do to you if you were fool enough to go. Doesn't bear thinking about.

Don’t even answer him. Just block and move on.

I've finally read it all 😳
Christ, that's mental, inviting another bloke to join in?? Wtaf!
Soooo glad you're not going ❤️
Block the wierdo

I’m amazed you have to ask

Fucking hell, talk about pushing your luck. Ignore and block.

My mate suggested "my vagina has just sealed tighter than a Pharos tomb "
😂

Respond with “You really need to learn the meaning if the word consent.” Then block.

Yea don't set yourself up to be someone's porn addled brain re- enactment. Some men have seen so much of it they believe women would actually like it that way or cease to care whether they like it or not as it's all about them. Just yuk!

Wtf I'd think he was a bullshitter if I hadn't seen my fair share of absolute mentalists in the online dating world. I think you need to refrain if you even considered meeting him for a second. Fwb is fine if all involved are on the same page, you don't want someone openly admitting to being so sexually incontinent though, think of the herpes.

Please block him. No answer just block him. A rapist in the making. I wish there was an offence for this and you could report him to the police (I know, it's just wishful thinking). You deserve much much better. Block now and never look back and tell your friend you have much higher standards

Tell him that you are incredibly excited about the other man joining in and feel it's only fair that you also bring someone along. Your colleague, Sheila, 58 and 19 stone and she is into flogging (men's) bare bottoms with a riding crop and making them lick her bunions.

Or you could reply -

Oh what a shame you are so inadequate in bed you have to have a friend to accompany you in order to satisfy a woman. Sorry petal but I'm not interested.

I wouldn't try to be clever. I'd just tell him straight that not every woman likes that, and he should check with them first, not just decide for them. Then block.

He told you this I'd seen him on a few sites including hook up sites . He told me last weekend he'd met a couple in a hotel for sex and you still agreed to meet him?

Don't try and be clever or funny with this man, he sounds a danger. You could spell out what he's done and why it's not ok then block. As in 'you've arranged to bring another stranger for violent group sex without my prior consent? Obviously I won't be there for that or any type of meeting with you'. Block him on your phone as well as WhatsApp. He would probably either insult you or try and wriggle out of it saying it's just a fantasy, can you just go back to the two of you.

He sounds like a rapist. Drop it and run.

Do not correspond with this disgusting man, delete and block.

You have admitted that you had a recent, hurtful breakup. Please take time to get over this and forget about communicating with a lowlife like this. I suspect that he has you marked as vulnerable due to the breakup and thought he might be able to take full advantage of the situation.

He's dropped . I aren't meeting him . Way out of my comfort zone.
Just didn't know whether to say something about consent.

Urgh. He sounds disgusting. Swerve and block!

Do not respond what a freako!

Don’t answer. Block, I never say block but he sounds really dodgy, it’s really not on arranging a whole thing with another person without your consent, or even meeting you first.

he sound vile. Absolutely do not meet him

l would be really careful as to who you communicate with online, its a cesspit for sexual predators.