Hello, so I've recently started to speak to someone new via an OLD app, I'm 32 and he is 35. We spoke initially for a couple of days and the conversation was going well, he then video called me via the app. We decided to meet up after 3 days whereby we met on Thursday last week. The date overall was great, he told me a lot about his family situation quite early early on. Father is divorced and now married to a somewhat younger woman and has 2 young children with her, mum is on end of life care and brothers don't really have a relationship with him. He also mentioned that he would cut his father off and would only go to his funeral if he passed, but never speak to him again.
After meeting, we continued to speak and decided that we felt a vibe so we both will lay off the app. We met again on the Sunday, this was more of an intimate date. He has a stomach hernia and after consuming foods that affected him he started to suffer. He went to a Sunday dinner straight after we met and also ate from there. This caused him severed sickness overnight. He was really off for a whole day which was understandable, but there was a lot of tantrums and moaning. When I questioned whether he has genuine interest he said "I'm sick, what do you want me to do or say"? But he was also out a couple of hours later, he sent me a picture.
So he messages me everyday, but recently it's changed. There are longer gaps between replies and a couple word answers, the other day he randomly sent me a message of a field and said, "do you ever come to a field break down and then feel better"? He never asks me how I am, or how I am feeling (I informed him of my situation at present which is also terrible, but I don't discuss it) whereas I always ask whether he's going well and give him positive support and advice.
Earlier today he sent me a video discussing feminism and men being oppressors just randomly out of the blue. I don't get what he is trying to get at? I have an amazing career, I train 6x a week and have a lot of consistency in my life. I can hold my own and never asked any guy I've been in a relationship for anything.
What should I do?