My fiancé and I have been together about 3years…. We’ve haven’t always had the best of times- in all honesty.
we’ve been through couples therapy but he is still verbally nasty (calling me all sort of names) and he breaks / damages my belongs (three pairs of daily glasses, multiple phones, clothes- sometimes whilst they’re on me and my bedside cabinet at my mums. To name but a few).
I’m going through therapy, but my therapist cut my session the other day short as my fiancé kept walking in and trying to continue the argument that we had before. I had to nip to my mums as I had a parcel delivered so I had to pick it up and said I’m going to mums, so he thought I was staying there and having dinner (not the case). I went home and started sorting my dinner out as he’d done his own-for once! And he refused to let me use the oven and proceeded to wipe his hands over my mushroom, telling me his hands were dirty. I threw the mushroom at him as I was at my wits end as we’d argued the night before too! He grabbed me by my T-shirt and forced me to take the rubbish bags to the bin, he then locked me out and deliberately took his keys from the kitchen side to put them in the door so my keys wouldn’t work from the outside.
He goes through my phone and won’t let me socialise with my mates as there would have been males there