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My partners left me told me he doesn't love me anymore but wants to come around and fuck me and fuck me off every now and then I'm broke

You really right what what do I do if I'm pregnant? Not tell him run away tel him?

Have some self respect

Grow up OP.
You sound like a pathetic 12 year old.

'do what he's got to do'
What is this, what does he mean do what hes got to do? do you have an agreement to try for a baby? :/
You can get better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

If you're pregnant then it's by a matter of days. So you have plenty of options.

You'd need to seriously consider whether after losing his dad so recently (and presumably already knowing his mum is dating someone else) it's fair to your son to then add a baby to the mix and make the man who sees you as an orifice a permanent fixture in both your lives.

I don't personally believe that would be fair on your son (or you tbh) at all.

Have you taken a pregnancy test that says positive?
If so book a termination.

If it’s been less than 3 days take the morning after pill.

Stop trying to hope you’re pregnant so you have an excuse to keep this man in your life - he doesn’t want to be.

Block his number and get some therapy.
You have a very fragile child that needs all of your attention right now.

You are not in the right head space to have a relationship and definitely not another child.

This is so sad :(

He has no respect for you, you have no respect for yourself.

Block him. Move on.

If you're pregnant get an abortion, you don't need life long ties to this piece of shit.

He doesn't want a relationship, what makes you think he wants to be a father??!

Please block him. For your own sanity.

Ok!

My eyes can't roll back any further in my head. OP, your standards are so low they're practically underground.

Block him.

Get a pregnancy test. If it's positive, get an abortion. If it's negative, thank your lucky stars.

Then get contraception sorted.

Move on with your life.

I'm hurting I'm so sorry I came and asked for advice I thought he loved me and I loved him very much but fuck it it's life

He's told you he doesn't.

I know it hurts. I've been there, but he's said very clearly he doesn't want you for anything other than sex. You are worth more than that.

You will find someone who wants a relationship, someone that respects you.

He will drag this out for as long as you entertain him. You need to be the one that makes a stand and says 'no, I am worth more than a convinience fuck'

You can do this. You can!

You know he doesn’t love you.
He’s made that clear.

So either you can keep being sad and trying to find ways to get him to love you like having sex with him or trying to get pregnant - which still won’t make him love you.

Or you can accept that he will never love you and concentrate on your son who does love you and needs you.

He's a cunt. Block him and take some time to heal.

Sounds like a headfucking, controlling wanker op. He most definitely is not your friend. Friends don't treat people like that. Tell him to jog on and block. He is not your rock anymore, he is cryptonite.

You don't have to apologise for coming to ask for support
It's understandable that this is a massive shock to you if you really thought he was a good committed partner to you

What we have hopefully done is remind you - you deserve better , you need to look after yourself and your child - by eating and drinking normally , thinking straight , finding your anger and seeing the truth

Block him . Now

It's that easy !

Then you spend time with your beloved child , good friends , family if you have them , have some you time , get some rest , wait a couple of weeks , do a pregnancy test , decide what's right for you . Look online at building up your self esteem / boundaries and recognition of shit men who just want a shag . Move on with your life , being single is not so bad you know 💐

You're two days late though with negative tests op, you also had unprotected sex only 8 days prior to you being due on, so you are almost certainly not pregnant going by those two things.
Unless you ovulated extremely late, at two days late a test would likely show positive.
Everyone on the other thread has said this, and you're still saying let's wait a few days, "but I have these Symptoms " and still planning on what to do if you're pregnant - when it's very unlikely you are.
To be completely honest - you sound like you want to be pregnant. Going by the two threads together.
It won't make him stay with you op. Please do better for yourself and your son.

Yep heads fuck and fell off I understand he doesn't want me and yeah I'm hurting because of that and no I don't want to be pregnant i just came for advise but yeah I'll be there and put my kids first!

You have multiple kids? Who have had huge trauma they’ll need counselling for. They should be the sole focus, not some bloke that you dated for a year and his open disrespect of you. He is irrelevant. Can you sort proper contraception?

You've had lots of great advice.

Another bit to add - in future, if someone tells you they love you, don't believe them unless their actions also show this. Words are cheap. Blokes like your ex know that the easiest way into some women's beds is to say "I love you".