I met a man through some mutual friends. We were not set up he was just out one time. There is a connection between us. Something that seems a red flag is he mentions how 2 of his exes have cheated on him. He said about the one ex, that he came home to find her in bed with another man and she told him she cheated because he was a failure in life and always ill. He hasn't explained how he found out about his wife cheating. I don't agree with cheating. It makes me wonder what made these women cheat. As in is he controlling so they went elsewhere. He seems a bit passive and attracts drama. I know people who have been cheated on but they don't mention it to people.