Hello,
My boyfriend is kind of upset with me but I don't think I'm in the wrong- please let me know if I am.
So, I work part time and see my boyfriend once a week- if I can. This week, on my day off, we arranged to meet up, go and do something and spend time with each other. However, I looked at my funds and told him that I am really stretched for money this week (major bills coming out) and that I ideally want to spend the day off really sorting out other family issues, issues with court etc. My bf was a bit disappointed and said to not worry that he will come over and help me, would pay etc. But I said no- not to worry. I'll just see you next week and that was that.
Then on my day off, my friend rang me and said if we could go for a quick coffee date. I said ok, as I haven't seen her for many months and-unlike the bf, a quick coffee date wouldn't take the entire day that It would have been if I went out with my bf. So anyway, I told my bf that I was meeting a friend quickly and he because quite annoyed, he said that I cancelled the plans and now I'm going out with friends even though I said X. He then went on to say that it's not the fact you are going out with your friends, but it's the principle. I then told him that I saw him for the past two weeks and that I hardly see this friend and wanted to take the quick opportunity- it's not we if I'm going out with her for the whole day.
I don't know. Am I in the wrong?