My marriage is abusive and I’ve been putting up with it for far too long. There is no physical violence but awful verbal, emotional, and financial abuse. His anger and hatred towards me is off the scale. Lately I’ve felt increasingly uneasy round him and a sense of danger. I’ve wondered if he was planning to kill me then told myself I’m being silly.I’ve asked him to move out, and he has. He is furious.
Today I had a conversation with his brother. Bil is very sensible and nice. He knows we’ve not been getting on although not the truth. Bil said he has become seriously concerned. He said H often rants about me in a furious spiteful manner and blames me for everything.He said H is consumed by it. He said H gives off a evil sinister energy (he does) and that he no longer wants him around him or his children. He said he is seriously concerned that H is going to hurt me and that he has long suspected him to be a sociopath.
I don’t know if I’m just spooked, but I’m actually really frightened. I used to have that awful anxious feeling around him that i realise was actually fear. I am not worried he is going to attack me, I am worried he is going to kill me.
I know that womens aid and the police can help but realistically he could be in this house within seconds if he wanted to.
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Sausagelove · 17/05/2022 23:07
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