Have been seeing someone for almost 6 months. It has been casual. A few dates, some walks, phone conversations and sleeping together 6 times. We message every couple of days if not more and have done throughout.
I like him and was incredibly attracted to him but it's just fizzled. He is always too busy to meet up and It's lost momentum.
I want to almost-daily messages to end now. But I don't want to be so blunt as to block him. I've tried to keep my responses short / no questions. How can I just draw a line under this without making it in to a big deal.
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A 'closure' message. Is it always a bad idea?
Kitten2 · 15/05/2022 18:38
Kitten2 · 15/05/2022 20:05
So something like .... 'hey Mark, was great getting to know you a bit, have enjoyed it, but it's come to a natural end since meeting up is so tricky for you. Take care'
... would that be alright, too dramatic?!
He wasn't my boyfriend or anything.
Suprima · 15/05/2022 20:50
Why do you care?
he clearly doesn’t care about you
move on, and block in case he tries to text
you when you want a shag
CrystalCoco · 15/05/2022 20:56
Something along the lines of 'I'm just not feeling the connection anymore' is a fairly polite way to say see ya!
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Suprima · 15/05/2022 20:50
Why do you care?
he clearly doesn’t care about you
move on, and block in case he tries to text
you when you want a shag
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