Me and my partner have a one year old boy. Our relationship has been amazing but lately, I feel empty and alone. DH spends most of his time gaming until 10pm where he suggests we watch something on the tv which I explain it's too late and I'll be heading to bed soon. When he's NOT on his game, the rare occasion, he will fall asleep and that's our evening finito.
Our sex life is non existent. He only shows an interest in me or wants to spend time with me if he wants sex, once all said and done, then it's back to being left in the lurch waiting for him to pay me attention. We had an argument recently as I was in the house all day, DH then decided to watch porn a second after I closed the door, hadn't even pulled off the drive - he didn't even attempt to try it on with me which hurt seen as sex is so rare.
I go to bed scantily clad or even naked and he doesn't bat an eye at it. I almost feel at this point I'm invisible.
Im fed up of having the same convo, only for it to get better for a week or so and then revert to its old ways. The most frustrating thing about it is once I threaten to leave, as I cannot keep doing this to myself, his true emotions come out, he becomes very upset and tells me how much I mean to him, but why does it resort to this to get some sort of emotion from him?
He's not a big talker about problems in fact having deep meaningful conversations is pretty much a waste of time. I feel like every day I'm sitting here waiting for some attention which never comes.