So 2 months ago my husband of 5 years (together for 10) told me our marriage was over, claimed he was unhappy and had been for months which was why he was leaving. He’d never told me he was unhappy, was booking holidays and doing our house up etc…it came completely out of the blue. A week later I found out there was somebody else, his sisters best friend who lives down in London, we’d been on a night out, I went home early because of our daughter, he stayed out and apparently there was a spark between them! They’d text for a week before he left me and apparently she made him realise he was unhappy!
We are now 2 months on, I’ve sold our house, car and been looking after our 3 year old daughter pretty much single handedly. He’s down in London most weekends, seems to be loving his new life and has pretty much mapped out his year with this new woman.
Hes moving full force with her and through a mutual friend I’ve heard he is considering moving down to London to live with her. Its over 300 miles away, I’m just wondering if anybody has been in this situation before and what happens with the childcare arrangements? I don’t want my daughter travelling down there every other weekend as it just seems too much at her age? He’s meant to have her currently every other weekend and every Wednesday night although that hasn’t exactly been consistent so far!