There is a director at work. I have noticed he will always look at me if I or he goes past or he stares from afar. He is in his late 40s, good looking and very confident and outgoing talking to people. Lately when he has said hello to me he quietens his voice and looks coy when he says it. Yesterday he quietly said how are you 'bab'? which no-one else would have heard. I was a bit surprised he said 'bab' as we don't really know each other. I asked how he was and he said he was ok. When he says hello he does this face as though he wants you to know he fancies me.
Today he came up to my desk and stood by me till I looked. He shortened my name, so he does know my name which my name isn't long anyway. He made some 'joke' with his colleagues just so he could speak to me. He does not shorten anyone else's name even though those people have their name shortened by others.
The thing is he is married with a young family. Whilst I do fancy him I would not act upon anything as I want a serious relationship. I also find it disrespectful he is flirting behind his wife's back and don't get why he isn't focusing on his marriage. It has got me down as I am in my 30s as I want to meet someone like him but who is single. How shall I act around him at work as when he interacts he gets me flustered and that stresses me out too and I hope he doesn't sense this.