My partner just can't work at the moment which is out of his control. I try and support him with my wages which is not much as I work part time. Due to my health issues I can't really do full time but I try and do extra hours.
So because he bored and fed up and he does help round the house. I pay for him to do this bootcamp classes each week which I pay monthly. Today he says to me that there's a trip for £30 with his bootcamp. I just sat at the table while he is telling me and just kept myself quiet.
I can't afford to pay for that and to be honest I want him to stop the bootcamp until he starts working. It sounds bad but really feel upset with this whole situation with him and starting to resent him. I just didn't sign up for this.
I help him so much with money and give him money to go see his friends. I try saying to him that not everything he can attend. I need my hair done really badly but do more for him than myself.
It's like he asked me for £30 and he could been like I won't go we don't have the money. And I helped him by giving money to his family and it's like too much.
I just can't do it no more.
I love him but feel used at times. I still got to look after our son and that's hard enough.
I feel like I resent him for putting me all through this situation which I can't talk about. But some things he don't need surely I am not overreacting here.
I even payed for him and I to go to this party he was invited too. Like each party he just can't attend and expect me to pay for.
I just don't know what to say to him.
Any advice?