If you or partner are working from home, do you give the other person a break in the day. I'm not talking an hour, but 10/15 mins to just give them a break from small children.
Huge argument with husband who works from home.
Have said before that 2 children under 3 is hard going and perhaps he could instead of going out for numerous vapes outside, turn left and see if I could do with 10 minutes outside.
I've asked 'nicely' I've pointed out that he gets about 5+ vape breaks per day and takes lunch to his desk to eat etc and therefore it might be nice to give me a pathetic 15 minute break?
I've been passive aggressive and made comments and finally just been upset and told him he's a shit husband.
Is he though or am I asking too much?
My argument is that I spend all day and all night with the children, feed them all day, play, clear away food from weaning baby and child, I do all domestic chores, daily vacuum, clear up cat litter, daily laundry at least 1 load, empty and stack dishwasher and I clean up from the day at night, including the floor from dinner and plates etc. So it's not like I'm relaxing.
His argument is that if he was at work, I'd get no break.
Mine is... but you aren't at work, and why wouldn't you give your wife a break? Especially if she's saying she's worn out.
He spent longer giving me reasons why he never gets a break, and various others things he does which mean he doesn't need to, rather than just saying, ok.
I told him he was a shit husband and he would give a random person off the street a break over me.
It's very depressing