OP, this is just one more example of how your Partner treats you with utter contempt. How much longer will you tolerate his degradation?
His ‘Liking’ the bikini shots of his former sex partner and women you know clearly shows his weak boundaries and faithless agenda. He gains gratification from seeking their attention and trying his chances.
You’ve previously detailed how he causes you untold stress with his alcoholism, staying out, and ‘tough shit’ attitude, this while you’ve been juggling your challenging 5 yr old, pregnancy, and unsettled baby who has CMPA.
When you got pregnant, he vowed to cut down on his drinking to be supportive, but instead it has escalated. He stays out every weekend, and at home he drinks until 5 or 6 a.m. He ruined your birthday and told you to stop moaning. After your baby shower, he drank with his brother until 10 a.m., and again made false promises to cut down. Responding to your fear that he’d be too drunk to drive you to the hospital for the birth, he said if that happened, he had friends who could drive you.
Last September when your baby was 11 days old and you felt unwell, against your wishes he brought 5 friends over and they drank until 1 a.m. You sat upstairs all that time crying and breast feeding the baby, feeling uncomfortable in your own home. A few weeks ago, after arriving home from your date-night, he sneaked off without telling you and turned his phone off, and then came in at 5:30. He said he’d met up with friends. He felt entitled, didn’t apologize, and dismissed your anger.
He suffers from bulimia and vomits multiple times a day. He won’t clean up after himself, so you scrub and bleach the toilet, floor, walls and sink 3-4 times daily—and did so even while pregnant.
OP, you’ve gone from one abusive relationship to another. You and the children are living in an emotionally destructive, alcoholic home. In your shoes, making an exit plan would be my number 1 priority. He’s dragging you all down into the gutter. 