Marriage has been bad for a long time. He can't control his temper, on eggshells all of the time. Have 2 kids, one with additional needs. Have not left because of money/health. I had no work and have a chronic health condition. Recently managed to get some work - it is in another city - I work away for three days. I was thinking that maybe I could move out but the cost of living issue has thrown a spanner in the works. Plus it's somewhere else. I can't afford to leave for me never mind with the kids and I can't really move my child with ASN as I don't think he would cope. I keep trying to work things out but I feel trapped. We own the house but it is unfinished and has been for years. I am exhausted and confused and finding it hard to think straight. I am sure there is a way forward, I just can't see it.