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Am I thick or is he a tosser?

46 replies

Mydogdave · 10/02/2022 23:57

Hi readers if I get any 😄. I’ve been with my partner for 10 years now, 2 kids 13 and 3.

I’m currently 10 weeks pregnant and bell partner has always been a bit of a bell but lately he’s being a total massive bell with bells on,he’s very secretive and so so nasty.

I’m not into tech at all I’m technically challenged as they say here’s the thick part not known in shared with you on my iPhone keeps popping up on his bell messages sent to me he said it’s coming from me I’ve tried Googling but none the wiser am I thick or is he being a fibbing bell???

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GreyCarpet · 11/02/2022 05:03

I think I might be thick because I've read that 3 times and can't make any sense of it.

Read your second paragraph again and check it says what you want it to.

Not being a dick but the fact you've had no replies suggests no one else understood it either.

KatherineJaneway · 11/02/2022 05:05

I think I might be thick too as I have no idea what you are talking about

Rosieposie101 · 11/02/2022 05:09

I understand the first two paragraphs but am confused by the phone part too. Can you explain again?

lavender2022 · 11/02/2022 05:18

Come again?

lavender2022 · 11/02/2022 05:23

I think OP is talking about some type of notification regarding sharing (files, pictures?) popping up on their phone, thinks it's coming from OH phone, OH is saying it's not and that it's coming from OP phone?

Is that right, OP?

Louisianagumbo · 11/02/2022 05:26

It sounds like there are a lot of bells in your family. So it's difficult to say.

NoMoreCricketDartsOrFootball · 11/02/2022 05:29
Biscuit
MrsEricBana · 11/02/2022 05:34

What the bell?

GreyCarpet · 11/02/2022 05:43

Sorry, read your third paragraph/sentence again.

It was early...

Zonder · 11/02/2022 05:50

By bell do you mean bell end?

RussiasGreatestLoveMachine · 11/02/2022 05:52

That’s a lot of 🔔 🔔 🔔 🔔

Gardeningcreature · 11/02/2022 05:55

You've been together 10 years yet you have a 13 year old child. Is that a typo?
Regarding the phone sharing, do you mean photos are popping up on your phone?

Totalwasteofpaper · 11/02/2022 06:07

😅 What is Bell an euphemism for???

Hesma · 11/02/2022 06:29

Sorry but I think you’re thick as nothing you’ve written makes sense 🤷‍♀️

FruminariaBandersnatcheosum · 11/02/2022 06:34

Why are you with someone that is secretive and nasty?

Sort that out and whatever else is going on will probably go away I imagine.

Mydogdave · 11/02/2022 06:42

Ooooh mean lol good job my skin is as thick as my brain. Yes he’s a bell end and yes lots of them in my family. My 13 year old isn’t his and yes it’s a notification when he messages me he’s becoming a sneaky arsehole lately something not quite right. Anyhow I’m off to work ringing my bells 🔔 have a good one ☝️

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Bananalanacake · 11/02/2022 06:59

I'm assuming the 13 year old isn't his if you've been together 10 years.

Mydogdave · 11/02/2022 07:08

Yes banana you assumed correctly. Obviously nobody knows what I’m on about it literally says not known in shared with you underneath his messages that he sends to me I’ve never had it before and I’ve had iPhones for years

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DropYourSword · 11/02/2022 07:10

...I still don't even understand the question Confused

lavender2022 · 11/02/2022 07:12

Can you specify what you're referring to when you're talking about the "shared with you" thing? Are you talking about when you share pictures via iMessage or something? I'm assuming that you have his number saved in your phone so what exactly is the "not known" part about? I'm so confused right now?

lavender2022 · 11/02/2022 07:13

@DropYourSword

...I still don't even understand the question Confused
Likewise. I'm actually trying my best to understand. But I really don't.
SchoolWillBeUpShitCreek · 11/02/2022 07:14

Hmm. Have a nice day at work, then come back and explain in clear language what's happening, then you might get some useful answers.

DropYourSword · 11/02/2022 07:15

@Mydogdave

Yes banana you assumed correctly. Obviously nobody knows what I’m on about it literally says not known in shared with you underneath his messages that he sends to me I’ve never had it before and I’ve had iPhones for years
OHH! Look, I've just had a quick Google about "Not known in Shared with You" - have you updated your phones OS recently? It looks like it might be a fairly new feature, which is why even if you've had iPhones for years it might be new to you!
SweetPotatoDumpling · 11/02/2022 07:20

🤯

Not a clue 🤷‍♀️

BobHadBitchTits · 11/02/2022 07:23

Op, have you clicked this on or off by mistake?

Am I thick or is he a tosser?