We had a minor disagreement earlier, I shouldn't have but I raised my voice (he was talking over me so I felt I had no choice as he wasn't listening to me)
He then raised his fist to me and said "I'll punch you on the nose in a minute" what disturbs me most is I saw a look of anger cross his face and hate / contempt in his eyes
I told him not to ever threaten me with physical violence and then he back tracked and made out he was joking
My ex husband used to bully and threaten me and push me around, H knows this. I've always said it is a dealbreaker
I don't know what to do. I only work part time, we have 3 dc 7, 12 and 15. (The 15 yo is from my first, abusive marriage) I couldn't leave or afford the mortgage on my own . The kids adore him. We have a lovely life but he earns all the money, I've been poor in the past and couldn't go back to it. Yet I feel disgusted by what he did and I feel like I hate him right now
Sorry for the brain dump but I just wanted to get the whole situation down so I don't end up drip feeding