So, I've been with this guy for a while. Not together, but we might as well be. I'm confused. Very confused. Sometimes he is so nice and full of affection and wisdom, but if I do something that annoys him (even if that's simply defending myself), he goes all weird and gives me the silent treatment. Whenever I try to confront him he uses his mental health as a defense, even though I also suffer with depression. Still I am confused as to whether it really is me - I don't know if he really does find me unpleasant. But I walk over eggshells, I can never get anything right. Is this bad? Another thing is that if I try to talk to him about it all, he puts it off as 'you're acting like my girlfriend', after he has just smothered me in love a day before. So confused.