My husband is 33 weve been together 15 years he works a very demanding job 5 days a week and lets the stress get to him his that type of person who takes lots of pride in his work, but for the last few years since weve had our 2 children his constantly saying how run down he feels, tired and just out of energy.
He has been ill pretty much since begining of december and is recovering from long covid i believe!(his adament his not) and i understand it has took a lot on him but even on his days off when i feel he is resting and doing things he enjoys when the kids arnt home, he doesnt feel any better.
If the little ones wake in the night ill try and get there 1st but he does get up also.
We are currently renovating our bedroom and my parents are round here everyday to do it but they are gone by the time his home.
I want to help him and understand the tiredness and mundane of doing exactly the same things he is doing everyday and how he is feeling but i just cant , this is life surely - you get up,you go to work, you eat , you sleep, you repeat
my days consist of the kids and volunteering at the school doing the house work, cooking dinner(his diet is not good just to note no fruit or veg will enter that mouth!) organising things, i do get more time than him at home so probably do more things to enjoy than him but this is what we agreed to do when we had the children , i feel tired but its life you just have to crack on
I dont know what the point of this post is maybe some words of wisdom please on how i can help him because im out of ideas , ive told him many times he should get a check up at the doctore to see if his lacking anything