Fab Guys - Looking for answers and Support

[MaxineAnn]

Hello can anyone help support me please - I have recently read some past posts from last year and I need to share My Story and hopefully seek support from anyone who will listen, support and perhaps talk of their own experiences and I am happy to listen to advice and guidance - The topic I wish to discuss if anyone out there can spare the time is gauging a understanding of the website: Fab Guys please and thank you ..?

As 1 person replied he lied to you and dont love you, he most probably does love and cherish you, if he didnt he would have been long gone, im on my 2nd marriage, going back to the late 80s when i 1st started dating my ex wife you couldnt be gay or bi, it was still looked on as disgusting by most, guys couldnt come out like thay can now, i was scared to loose my family and friends, it was hard to meet anyone as you didnt know who would like you and who would kick the hell out of you, he probably wanted you to know but scared of your reaction, knowing back then he would have been outed if he told you or you wouldnt have dated you, try standing in his shoes for 1 day, knowing you liked guys and girls, it was the worst place to be back then, he never lied unless he told you he wasnt interested in men or never slept with 1, i used to always say to my ex ive never been with another woman, my ex was the liar every time she got held up at work when she was parked up somewhere in a car with a guy from work shagging, im not saying you have cheated or lied to your husband, i know you love him and want to stay with him or you wouldnt be looking for advice, i so hope you can work it out, it wont be easy but marriage is for life where im concerned, you love each other its just finding that way to deal with it, i know it took many years to come out to you but at least you know now, he probably would have told you years ago but think of reasons why he didnt, have you ever made any homophobic comments?, i never told my parents cos of comments they said when a gay person on tv said something, like the 1st gay kiss on eastenders my mum went mad, saying how disgusting it was, dont want anyone like that around them, its easy done, support him, you need to let him do his thing, talk to him about safe sex, make sure he is playing safe, tho he probably says he is and might not be, loads of fab guys say safe sex only and when it comes to it they say they dont want to wear a condom, what ever you do dont worry about Aids, its no longer a death sentence, maybe now you know help him find 1 regular partner, then they both get checked and no risk of anything coming back to you then, i do hope you get this sorted,

It may not be as bad as you are thinking. A lot of men have a fantasy about being with another man but many don’t follow it through. I myself have dabbled and I would say I’m bisexual but have a preference for women. I cannot connect the same way to a man than a women.

You find a lot of men who lacked intimacy at home find there way to fab guys. It is far easier to have casual sex with men or trans as there are very few consequences which always come with taking a heterosexual lover.

Hi, I seen your comment about fab guys. I am recently going through the same as the woman who posted and would love some more advice please about the site

Fab Guys is a hook up site for men, Cross dressers and Transsexual both male to female and female to male.
Married men frequent this site to have sex or think about having sex. For instance male to female trans are damned sexy. Your husband may not have cheated but has thought about it.

i guess your not a member of fab guys then?, there are many men like me who just want other men who are men, to meet for sex, regular or 1 offs, most dont want trans or cd`s,

feel free to ask

Yes I am a member and I have met a lot of guys over the years and took lots of risks. Women are As I have stated there are a lot of married men there. I’m some cases their wife knows but a lot do it behind their backs as I used to.

Female partners seem to post about ‘why is my partner on FabGuys or Adultwork’ etc. Men can join these sites for nothing (or pay £5 a year on FabGuys to see extra content) and see photos and posts from people wanting or offering sex. Many men will just enjoy the thrill and excitement, often without ever meeting anyone, just getting a sexual thrill from messaging people about sex. More often than not these will be men who’s partners don’t have sex, don’t dress up, don’t initiate sex, don’t want to try something new, are too tired for sex etc. Whenever I hear a female saying “my partner is always miserable” I often wonder when’s the last time you had sex?
The majority of men will never actually meet people from these sites but it is their only opportunity to stimulate themselves sexually.

Can't few my pictures square box ?

Looking in Bangor area

For gay hook ups? On Mumsnet?

Reminds me of the joke
I took my wife to Wales at the weekend
Bangor?
No, we just went for a walk on the beach

Mash?

😂

Hi, if you seen a text saying GUYS and it cost £5 for a text, it's www.fabguys.com.

It's the only site that requires minimum of £5 via text to become a site supporter on a gay site.

Sorry but thought I should tell you the truth.

I would just like to add about the fabguys site it's mainly a hook up site not only for gay men but also for bisexual men,and if you go through looking at the profiles you will find there is a lot of married men on there,they are in the main the bisexuals,and you tend to find quite a lot of them are questioning there sexuality ,it's a bit like when you as a lady look at a man in public sometimes things click in your brain about him and can trigger sexual thoughts of in your mind,as does when man looks at certain females,thoughts of a sexual matter occur in the male brain,now this is where the problems start ,when you look at a man's body in a sexual way,he as a bisexual especially has those same feelings,but also he gets tholings towards females,this his is dilemma, and it can be exaggerated ,so he's looking at this site,however the hook up side of it,is nothing about making relationships,it's purely about gratifying a sexual need of sexual relief,be it just looking at the pictures/videos and masturbating or if a pickup is actually made then it's usually about the physical act of obtaining an orgasm by another male performing the act of (having a blow job)performed on him,now this act is purely one of sexual gratification,there is no emotions of love or anything else,sometimes it's started of in a marriage where the males needs are not satisfied for some reason or another and it pushes the male to this path,but it also pushes the female into a situation where her needs are also not satisfied and she doesn't understand why he appears no longer to be in love with her,but the fact is he's only looking for a males satisfaction which he feels he's no longer getting in his marriage,,but it's not like he's looking for love and emotional support from another female, he's yours and your his,and perhaps if there is a question of a sexual nature on his part then the whole thing rests on honest communication between the two of you ,to be open with each other with no recriminations on the part of you both,the fact that he's only looking,and perhaps using as a tool for the purposes of masturbation is a strong indicator that he is not gay,where there is emotional needs between partners,but being bisexual with a curiosity ,and as earlier said just using as a tool for the purposes of masturbation,for example he would like to have the same effect of a(blow job) within the marriage,it's, I suppose it's like the female in the marriage would like to the experience of her partner to go down on her and perform the act of cunnilingus on her vagina/clitoris because she's not getting it the orgasms that she would really like,,so that's why it comes back to being open and honest about between you both ,and it would appear that he is ashamed about his actions and feels he can't really talk about it,I only hope this helps you both,and that you can both talk about it😊

Sorry about some of parts of my communications missing,but I'm writing this on my smart phone and my fingers are to big for the keys,🫣 but hope in the main you can understand it

One last thing,the question of the £5.00,that's the charge that gives total access to everything on the site for either I think it 35 days or 45 days before it runs out, and the site keeps your profile running as live,unless you remove all your details and even then if you at some time in the future go back to the site your details will still be there,awaiting another £5.00.Also if you look at the very bottom of the home page you will see a link to a sister site for fab swingers ,it's a similar site but it's for females,males and couples,same feelings of £5.00

Same feelings,excuse my clumsy fingers

Same feelings not feelings,lol🫣

It's my phone,same fees are charged