Im not cleaning it…

[Longhotbath1]

I know this is super petty-
Dh threw a cushion at dd face- she wasn’t best impressed.

He took her bowl off her to take out ceral as she had finished, i said to her throw it back, so she did and the bowl went flying the cushion that is,
Milk all over the floor.
No he saying im not cleaning that, you come on clean it up.
Let see how long its there grrr

@EmmasMum12

Poor husband. Your fault. You should have cleaned it up.

Are you for real @EmmasMum12?

"Poor husband" threw a cushion at his daughter's face.

How do you justify allowing your young child to be bullied in her home?

@Longhotbath1

So we should just accept stuff like this He does it a lot and i don’t like it, she dont like it. Ive spoke about it and he just thinks its funny/ playful banter type. Would anyone one here enjoy this? Speaking doesn’t work do i make my daughter feel like it doesn’t matter she has to put up with it?

No. If you live with a twat who won’t listen you, protect your daughter and leave.

A bit silly of you to tell your DD to throw something at your DH when he’s carrying a bowl with milk in. Good shot by the kid though!

@Hrpuffnstuff1 it's only fun if everyone actually wants to play. My brother used to 'play' in this way. Once hit me so hard with a pillow that my head slammed into the wall. He was violent and abusive and enjoyed the guise of it being 'fun'.

A grown man throwing a cushion at a small child when she has repeatedly expressed not liking it is the behaviour of an arse. Possibly worse, but arse is the minimum he is.

[quote MrsTerryPratchett]@Hrpuffnstuff1 it's only fun if everyone actually wants to play. My brother used to 'play' in this way. Once hit me so hard with a pillow that my head slammed into the wall. He was violent and abusive and enjoyed the guise of it being 'fun'.

A grown man throwing a cushion at a small child when she has repeatedly expressed not liking it is the behaviour of an arse. Possibly worse, but arse is the minimum he is. [/quote]
It's an interesting thread, because my partner's cousins boys were going at it with the settee cushions for ages whilst they were stopping over Xmas.

My dad used to to tickle us with his iron finger's, and rough house.
Admittedly it did hurt sometimes....

Me and my brother were always fighting, boxing each other.
My partner is quite physical too.

We are too. We have massive pillow fights. But DD initiates them and enjoys them. There's a difference. You do understand the concept of consent, right?

You stop (or don't start) when someone doesn't want to.