My bf and I have met each other’s family over Christmas but I’ve not met his friends. He has met mine. I wasn’t overly pushy about this as I wanted to meet his family first.
There have been times when I’ve found out afterwards in the past where he has invited his friends and their gfs on nights out/at at his house and I never was invited. He would always say you wouldn’t like it as we were drinking (I’m not a big drinker) etc.
He mentioned that he has invited his friends and their gfs over to his house and he’s cooking for everyone next week and if I wanted to join them, I could. I said yes.
When we were discussing plans about when we seeing each other next, he said he’s busy seeing his friends (this is day he invited them to his house) so could I see him the following day instead.
Clearly he didn’t want me there. I didn’t say anything as I felt slightly embarrassed.
Fast forward to the bank holiday, he told me that he and friends have made plans to go out into town, get some food drinks. He said I’m welcome to join. I said yes, I’d love to. And I asked where I can meet them. 20 mins later I received a text to say, he’s just found out everywhere is closed, they drove past few places and the pubs looked closed so they will go into town first and then let me know if I should go or not.
I said to him that I thought most places like that are open on a bank holiday and he said yes but not where he is. I told him that it seems like he doesn’t want me to meet his friends and if that is case then he should just be honest. It’s all very confusing so is he fobbing me off or am I over reacting?