How do you get your partner to chase you again?

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Hi all!
I was wondering whether any of you have tips on how to get your partner to be sweet and appreciative again. Although my feelings and actions haven't changed, he used to give me more love and attention than he does now.
How do you get your partner to chase you again?
PS: The relationship is long distance so that adds a layer of difficulty to everything...

Rocaille
Nailed it ! I’m also dealing with this and I’m not doing a single thing
I’ve deleted him
But what you say bout best behaviour is interesting
I thought that was him
Maybe not

I’ve deleted him Good for you!

Consistency is one of my standards. I'm not interested in hot and cold dynamics. If he's inconsistent, he's not for me.

Yuk. My DH never had to chase me. Nor me him. We entered into a relationship as mutually intelligent interested partners.

This ^
Why would you want someone to chase you, once you've left Nursery school ?

Unless you want to be playing these games for the rest of your life, just ditch people who don't give you the attention you want.

@Rocaille

He deserves better. No, OP deserves better. He's lowballing her by the sounds of it. Typical man who gets complacent and then starts treating his girlfriend like part of the furniture.

Typical man? You need to meet some decent ones. Keep the standards high and no games.

Supposedly you make yourself much less available if you can be arsed with games.

I would end it if he isnt making an effort.

As a PP said, become more busy, less available. He either steps up or you're part way to replacing him anyway.

Now imagining Barbara Windsor being chased by Sid James.

I’ve never needed to get someone to chase me. I’m not a game player. If you are, you’re on a hiding to nothing, really.