Met a lovely man about seven months ago! He had been out of a relationship about six months and was absolutely devastated during that time, said I was the first person he showed any interest in since his ex. Things have been good however he wouldn’t commit after six months so I finished it and he came back saying he didn’t know what happened but he was ready to be serious!
All good, we text back and forth a lot and see each other when we can work depending. The problem is at the drop of a hat he will go to his ex’s parents house where he lives but leaves his fone In the car and they know nothing of me. They share no children but he feels like they are his family and he seems extremely emotionally attached to them and it’s the only times he hides things from me/ lies. My gut is screaming something isn’t right. His ex won’t have any contact at all with him but he still goes to her family home whenever he can. Am I unreasonable