Would you date a man who was lovely , funny, smart, clearly adored you but is obese .
I ask as I'm meeting someone for a walk and a coffee , it's online dating and this will be our first meeting although we facetime , talk on phone and text , he makes me laugh so much , he's kind, sweet, sharp as a tack , he clearly wants a relationship and is losing weight at a rate of knots - like 7lb over 3 weeks . He put the weight on as he became agoraphobic, but he has overcome this which I think shows amazing courage . He loves clothes and has a fab wardrobe waiting for him when he loses a few stone ....
(He's more into clothes than me ! I'm a high street girl !)
I've made it clear until we meet I've no idea if he's friend zoned or not ....
Would someone being about 5 stone overweight bother you from an attraction point of view ?
I'm not overweight at all. I'm no Kate moss but I've always kept my weight down even when it's been a struggle sometimes.
I am encouraging him with his weight loss because he wants to do it and had already started that journey before we met ....
If he was happy at the size he is I'd not think about it but I'd probably not find him physically attractive either ....
Thoughts please.