Groped by my best friends husband

[Crystaltips]

I cannot believe that this happened.
It was about a week ago and my family and my best friend's family went out to a chinese for a treat for the kids.
I was sitting next to my mate's hubby.
It was 7pm ( not late ) and we weren't pissed ( we had kids with us ) and whilst we were reading the menu ( all around the table ) he put his hand on my boob.
I pulled back and ( seriously ) thought that I was imagining it.
5 mins later he began stroking me. I got up and went to the loo.
This happened again and on the third stroke ( ) I smacked the table and said "stop it" really loudly. Everyone looked at me - but said nothing.

It's only when I look back on it that I get crosser and crosser ( might be something baout me having a boob scare recently and had to go for a mamagram )
Problem is that we usually socialise a lot with them - and quite frankly I really do NOT wwant to see this bloke again.
Told DH who went all macho .... but I don't want to upset my mate ......

Such a shame to see what is a very serious matter disolve into bitching and mockery. There is a point to be made that this guy just casually touches another womans boob in a situation where he knows she in unlikely to cause a scene, and worse where there were children. Despite whether any of us think it is a matter for the poice, at best the womans partner should be told, OR Crystaltips should tell her partner and let him approach the man in question who would undoubtedly be too ashamed to tell his partner what had happened. Then, Crystaltips friend is none the wiser, if that's what the concern is.

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BekiF - thanks .... not too sure about the "casually" bit though ... happened 3 times.

W&R - FWIW all DNA evidence has been persilled!!

PPH .... ... how was the swan ??

Please don't get into a slanging match on my account. Just looking for a bit of moral support rather than legal advice

Crytal, I meant by casually that he did it as though it was OK and no prob. I'm on YOUR side!

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Just read this and I know its not helpful but couldn't stop laughing at WigandRobe. I can't believe she is for real. Crytaltips I feel sorry for you and your friend. I wonder if she knows what he is like . Perhaps you could try tosee her when he is not there because won't she become suspicious if you change solicitor and stop seeing them.

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cor wot a cheek, hope your dh gets him in a dark alley and stamps on his fingers.

wig and robe are you for real?

not too sure what's going on here - but W&R thanks for your support too. Just don't think it's that appropriate in my case to be so heavy handed.
I'd like to keep the friendship with my mate - after all it's not her fault.

Spoke to a girlfriend this afternoon - and he's notorious for having wandering hands.
I must admit I got really cross as all our kids were at the table too.

Had it been at a party - I could have put it doen to him being pissed - but quite obviously this creep has a problem.

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