My husband has been acting off kilter for over a year now. I called the police once and they removed him for a month. We have a young child and I thought it was in her best interest to give it another try. Obviously a huge error on my part.
I have no family support. Nor does he in fairness. He has been financially abusive- I am at home with the baby - he won't give me regular money won't help with the child. Puts me down. Sleep separate rooms. It's all very toxic. If I say the wrong thing he goes wild.
Things have escalated. I can no longer cope and he has gone out for the day leaving me with no money. I don't even have fucking nappies!!!
I asked my mum for help if the baby and I could stay for a bit while while I get myself but she's busy apparently and will reply this evening.
It's obviously a no which is not u expected. As I said no family support. so I'm here on edge thinking what happens next what do I do?
I don't want him back here but I also have no access to any money if he isn't here. Only enough food till tomorrow.
He isn't physically violent but having spoke to woman's aid on the chat yesterday it's still domestic violence. I don't know what to do I just need some guidance if anyone has maybe been through similar or could advise on best course of action.... that's a rambling mess. I haven't slept and my toddler knows something is up and is all over me at the minute