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Unpleasant situation - not sure what to make of it

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LemonMeringueThreePointOneFour · 29/10/2021 11:05

I'd like some opinions on this scenario as it's playing on my mind.

A few months ago my ex and I had been at the pub and he had drunk quite a lot (well over a bottle of wine, plus a pint). When we got back to my flat he dragged me outside (into the communal area) threw me onto the stairs and pinned me down. I wasn't quite sure what he had planned, but I fought him off and we went back inside where he calmed down.

Was this assault? Just a bit of rough and tumble and nothing to make a fuss about? Something in between?

I don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill, but would appreciate people's thoughts. Thank you.

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LemonMeringueThreePointOneFour · 29/10/2021 19:04

One of them is the main door, shared with several other flats. He won't have been able to get copies of that one.

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IveGotASongThatllGetOnYNerves · 29/10/2021 19:08

Then you may need to inform the owners/management company that someone has keys.
It's a security risk. When I lived in a flat it was in the rules.

LemonMeringueThreePointOneFour · 30/10/2021 19:58

I have my keys back now. He refused to speak to me, but I guess that was probably a good thing.

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