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Maybe broke a bone

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Mirrorflip · 14/09/2021 20:55

I fell downstairs about 3 weeks ago my foot folded under me. I think I broke my metatarsal on my little toe and maybe the next. My foot swelled up and discoloured all over including the sole. I couldn't go to hospital because my partner had just had a procedure and is immobile for some time. His mental health is not good so one of us needs to be mobile. The bruises are receding now but the pain is worse. Does anyone know if this can heal or am I causing a new problem.

OP posts:
category12 · 14/09/2021 20:59

Get yourself checked out for goodness sake.

It's unlikely they'll make you immobile by treating you, and you could be creating long term problems for yourself by ignoring your injury.

iusedtoloveopalfruits1 · 14/09/2021 21:00

You need to get that seen too!
I fell down the stairs last year and broke my foot. They gave me a moon boot for 6 weeks so I was mobile i just couldn’t drive.
If it is broken and it doesn’t heal properly you could be risking arthritis, pain and inflammation for ever! Is that really worth it for a possible few
weeks of inconvenience.

GoodnightGrandma · 14/09/2021 21:01

It needs an X-ray.

SarahBellam · 14/09/2021 21:11

Do you have a minor injuries unit near you? They’re better for this sort of thing than A&E.

lljkk · 14/09/2021 21:12

if it heals wrong then it could ache for life (I reckon I did this to myself with a foot injury that still aches sporadically)

You don't know if doctors can help you if you don't go ask them

lljkk · 14/09/2021 21:13

ps: is there a reason why you asked about foot injury in Relationships topic.

Mirrorflip · 14/09/2021 21:48

Sorry...but it's sort of relevant cos had it not been for partners procedure I'd have gone to emergency. Cos of they're lack of mobility I'm seeking other solutions. I'm unable to prioritize my needs atm.

OP posts:
LunaAndHerMoonDragons · 14/09/2021 22:00

What is the actual issue, he's not able to be left or you can't get transport? I agree with PP that you could end up turning this into a permanent issue, chronic pain, heals wrong, if you don't get it checked and properly supported. What about going when he's asleep, taxi, bus, lift from a friend?

TheFoundations · 14/09/2021 22:02

@Mirrorflip

Sorry...but it's sort of relevant cos had it not been for partners procedure I'd have gone to emergency. Cos of they're lack of mobility I'm seeking other solutions. I'm unable to prioritize my needs atm.
You can't not prioritise medical needs. It's like not prioritising going to the toilet; you'll make it worse for yourself in the long run.
naesake · 14/09/2021 22:09

You must get it checked out Your health is equally as important

SinisterBumFacedCat · 14/09/2021 22:13

You can’t pour from an empty cup. If he needs you that much he needs you healthy.

Palavah · 14/09/2021 22:15

If you don't get your foot seen to you could do permanent damage and leave yourself immobile too.

MountainDweller · 14/09/2021 22:17

Please get it looked at. I sprained my ankle and didn't go to hospital - I've had three surgeries and have post traumatic arthritis and a hip injury on the other side that didn't heal because of it.

category12 · 14/09/2021 22:22

@Mirrorflip

Sorry...but it's sort of relevant cos had it not been for partners procedure I'd have gone to emergency. Cos of they're lack of mobility I'm seeking other solutions. I'm unable to prioritize my needs atm.
Don't be daft.

You are going to regret this long term if you don't get it sorted.

Couldn't family or friends help out if needs be? And even if you're on crutches for a bit, you will still be able to do things.

Don't sacrifice your long term mobility and health for a temporary situation.

Is your partner bed bound?

Bluntness100 · 14/09/2021 22:28

Do you not have someone who could sit with him? Even a neighbour? Is he completely unable to be alone?

The thing is if you don’t get it seen to you will also soon be immobile.

Bluntness100 · 14/09/2021 22:30

Op, I mean this gently, is there another reason you can’t go to the hospital? Is he stopping you?

Gagagardener · 14/09/2021 22:36

I hurt my leg in 2009. Was single. No one to tell me to get it seen to. I limped on for 4 weeks. Ended up with surgery, plaster cast, crutches, then moon boot. 87-yr-old mother had to look after me. Couldn't drive for 3 months. Leg still swells and hurts.GET IT SEEN NOW.

CorianderAndCream · 14/09/2021 22:56

Why does your husbands health take precedent over your own? You could have a painful foot for the rest of your life if not sorted... ask a family member to sit with him while you get checked out.

If not possible set him up with water, food, remove, bed pan and then get yourself to the minor injuries

NanaPorsche · 14/09/2021 23:02

I broke my big toe 14th August - still hurts to buggery.

Had X-ray same day - just over nine hours in A&E.

My foot crumpled underneath me because my knee gave way.

Ball of foot feels very weird. Limping has aggravated my pubic bone which feels exactly the same as it did in pregnancy. (Required wheelchair for last pregnancy.)

I can hardly walk - one leg is kind of 'draggy' due to pubic bone pain. I've hardly slept for a month. I can't turn over in bed because of pain. Stairs - nightmare.

Apparently I chipped a bone on the joint and it's 'floating'. Went back to fracture clinic and was told there's evidence it's beginning to 'fill in'. Apparently I'll have another couple of months before swelling will be completely gone.

Who knew a toe could be so problematic?

I was given crutches but can't use them as I have two frozen shoulders.

I also have a surgical shoe which has been helpful.

Everyone has been saying - 'you still milking that?'

I could scream.

I was told use ice by one HCP. Use heat - another HCP.

Oh - told to strap it to next toe. Unfortunately, my big toe now overlaps the next toe.

I've had quite a bad break - the front of my foot was twice normal size for three weeks.

But it appears to be a matter of just waiting to heal.

Like previous pp - I'll have several other injuries to other joints by the time this gets better.

layladomino · 15/09/2021 08:04

I don't understand why you haven't had it looked at. If you seek help they may find ways of it healing faster, and certainly of it healing better (and being less of a problem long term). So if you want to be there for your DH the best thing you can do is get it seen to.

I don't understand why you haven't? It will be a bigger problem without medical help.

givinglessfucksdaily · 15/09/2021 09:11

This doesn't make any sense to me ?

Is your partner stopping you going to AE or seeking help ?
How is he going to manage if you wake tomorrow with it swollen like a balloon as you've continued weight bearing on it ?
Is it not more sensible to take 3 hrs out to check you are ok , than risk much more serious long term complications ?

Is there more to this story and that's why you've posted in Relationships?
If there is , please say and people will help you , lots of useful advice here

Hopingforabagofbuttons · 15/09/2021 10:26

This sounds strange , I don’t understand why you can’t ask a family member to pop round to be with your partner while you pop to doctors or A&E.
If you don’t get it looked at and it heals wrong it could definitely cause you long term pain. Your health is important, make sure you prioritise it.

scoopgalore · 15/09/2021 11:59

this thread makes no sense Confused

Bluntness100 · 15/09/2021 12:02

I don’t know if I’ve been on here too long but I am concerned the op is in a DV or abusive situation and can’t seek help.

Quartz2208 · 15/09/2021 12:04

You need to seek help because yes the longer term issues from not getting it seen are huge

I agree that it makes no sense

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