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How can I protect myself from daughter father

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Protectivemama0999 · 13/09/2021 12:33

Name changed for this as I don't want it linked to previous posts.
Fled domestic abuse last year with DD. We live in a confidential location, relocated several hours away from him. Currently going through court proceedings. DD has a warning marker on her medical records at GP and also with the Local Authority that no information is to be shared unless court ordered. Spoken to both the GP and LA and they said although he has PR, if the information endangers us both then it won't be shared. LA said they would advise I get a prohibited steps order when it comes to schools so he can only get redacted information..
I have a police marker on my house, a non molestation order that will expire next year. I have changed my numbers, my emails and have no social media.. He doesn't know where I work or where DD goes to childcare, both my work and her childcare establishment have a photo of him and know to immediately call the police if he's ever spotted.
What else can I do. There's been several threatening letters over the week from his solicitor about his entitlement to knowing where DD is. I've just picked up the phone to children's services and they assured no information whatsoever would be shared with him.
Is there anything else I can do in the interim whilst we're going through court proceedings. This person is a complete and utter psychopath, he will categorically end my life if he was ever in a room alone with me. He absolutely terrifies me, he's deeply affected my little girl also and I just wished he was dead :(

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 13/09/2021 14:34

We'll move this over to Relationships now, @Protectivemama0999. Best wishes from MNHQ Flowers.

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