I joined Tinder recently and have been chatting to a man for a little while.
At first he was a little flirty and generally he seemed nice, we both have camper vans so we had a bit in common. First he mentioned meeting somewhere with our vans for a trip but I didn't do it as seemed a bit much. I'm quite shy initially and terrible at flirting.
He has suggested coming to my house but I won't do that. I don't want a "hook up" but haven't exactly said as much.
I did say this weekend I may be around our local city, he just said tell him where and he'd be there. However as the night progressed (Friday), he messaged at 11pm saying he could come tuck me in bed, then saying he'd be around if I want attention, he's no harm just horny!
I said I was no good at those apps he said oh they're just fun and gave me his number.
Well I haven't rang him, as this sexual stuff has put me off. I'm not sure how to proceed.
He seems nice apart from this but I'm worried about what his expectations will be and I don't really know what to say now.
Any advice?
Sorry if I seem really naive 😬