I feel like maybe it’s trivial so don’t know if I’m being unreasonable but I feel so worn down...
My dh quite often mumbles (although he thinks he’s speaking clearly) or will say something to me when there’s noise in the background so I don’t hear what he’s said. Whenever I ask him to repeat what he’s said he ignores me no matter how many times I politely ask him to repeat himself... I don’t know why he does this.. he also gets extremely annoyed at me.
Anytime my phone makes a noise he makes mocking beeping noises and comments and makes me feel like I can never message anyone. This has led to me only using my phone when he’s not around and now I am very jumpy and if he ever walks in on me using it, it makes me feel stressed even though I have done nothing wrong and then if I try to hide it, it probably looks like I’m hiding something when I’m not. I’m just scared of his reaction.
He also constantly call me idiot, twat and other rude names but says it’s a joke. But I don’t really find it that funny because he says it in not a very nice way.
I feel like he doesn’t have much consideration for me - recently he’s started going back into the office and won’t tell me when he’s going in or what his schedule is which disrupts my work and plans and when I try to ask him, he just gets annoyed.
I’m feeling really low and constantly quite anxious but I feel like maybe I’m just being crazy? Does anyone have any advice?