I have been with my boyfriend just over two years I am 16 weeks pregnant and only just found out that when we was two months into our relationship and had fallen out he had messaged my sister behind my back flirting and chatting her up my sister never told me or showed me these messages and my family new this and have only just chose to tell me now which I find wrong and now don't want to talk to any of them but they are saying they didn't want to hurt me but we wasn't far into our relationship and I could of walked way and been in a better place than I am now today, I never thought anything like this would happen to me I love him so much and we have come a long way in over two years but since I confronted him he has not been in contact with me and I feel he dosnt care but not sure if this is down to shame or guilt the fact my sister and family have kept this from me and him also all of them living a lie to me has truly broken me I feel I have nobody and I don't no what to do I havnt contacted him either as I just want him to show me he cares but right now I don't no his reason for no contact I feel hurt he has built a life with me and known what he has done we have spent so much time around my sister and none of them have ever told me and im finding it so hard to cope with the situation? Do I throw over two years of our relationship away and become a single mum for something that happened at the start or do I try and work through this in time.. ? 