I had another thread about the start of the weeks holidays. We're now nearing the end of it .
It's our first weeks holiday after a year together. We live apart , divorced each with kids, busy stressful jobs. Normally see each other eow for full weekend and an overnight during the alt weekend.
We get on brilliantly . He is caring considerate and attentive . Our sex life is lovely . Normally intimate on each night we are together .
However ... we've spent six days together . He is absolutely shattered . Sleeping a lot , irregular sleep pattern which is normal for him, dozing. He also has a chronic lung condition with leaves him breathless on minimal exertion and is unfit . He is also 2 stone overweight. This al has a bearing on his tiredness and dropping off a few times throughout the day , every day.
We have had sex twice and he seems to have no interest in sex and frankly no energy . He is as affectionate and caring as always .
We've discussed this and have accepted that we need separate rooms for when he cannot sleep during night or wakes up at his. Usual time of 4am. We go to bed together and he comes back to bed in the morning at a decent hour .
Sexually he says he is conscious of our lack of activity and it has nothing to do with attraction or me but it does feel awful for me. He has been willing to accept oral sexual twice but no reciprocation so I've just stopped doing that .
I understand the insomnia, ill health but I guess I had our first holiday built up in my mind and it's been disappointing from those two perspectives .
We do nice things each day but also laze around. No drinking to speak of and are both late forties .
Can you give me your objective opinions on this week please ?