Me and my partner went on holiday few months back and he gets few calls from his co worker his line of work is like that where calls are normal.
She is married with 3 kids but she called him few times on the trip. I felt but weird so I told him that's odd for her to call few times he said some thing has came up so she did.
I told him that I want him to keep limited and professional relationship with that lady he said yeah. Since then I did doubt that something is off between me and him & that lady was coming in my mind.
Few months went and I kept asking him what is going on & he said she is just co-worker after 6-7 months I found they are talking and he was deleting the text i saw text on his phone send to that lady I love u and miss u & 💋 when I asked him he said it's just we are good friends that's all .
Now he is not working at that place anymore & he swears to me that they where just friends I'm being naive but I don't feel it. If he had affair I want to leave him. That's not acceptable at all. How will I know what it was ?
That lady is married too with 3 kids and how I will know they r still talking or not ? Even after job change. He says that in that time we where going through rough patch we where having lots of fights & disagreements so he was just talking nothing else & she become good friends that's all and he was just talking to her about our problems ...
Should I trust him ? Or it was emotional affair ? What do you guys think ?