Tell me not to message him

[gindreams]

I feel obsessed with a man who has slept with me and ghosted me or at least isn't replying anymore

I think if I don't message him I will never hear from him again so please tell me not to message him

@ScrollingLeaves

Thank you ! I am feeling so much better it's amazing the power of mumsnet!

I am glad. Keep going. You are done with men like him.

Gin- I can't link on phone but some women find the Reddit board 'Female Dating Strategy' helpful. There's also a book there as a PDF, full of ideas.

@me4real

Thank you I will definitely check it out

Are you bearing up Gindreams?

Still blocked and still deleted thank you for asking ! Begin to see the light that he is really was an arsehole !!

Thanks for checking in 😊

Start planning this next weekend, Gindreams!

And there is no time for losers in it!

Oh good! You're on the downward slope when you start reviewing your original impression of him and realising he was a bit of an arsehole.

@ScrollingLeaves
Yes I have booked myself a weekend camping with a Facebook group it's the only plus about a break up it motivates me to change my life
@ItPearl agreed the man was talk dark and handsome but a bit of a fucker

Onwards and upwards for me

Have a lovely trip, Gindreams.

@ScrollingLeaves and everyone else who took the time out time to post!

Thank you all so much

I am so glad I stopped messaging this man and moved on !

I met someone else a few months ago and he is Brilliant!