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Mylifeisacircus · 20/07/2021 13:13

Please no hate or rude comments
I'm 23, 3 children (4,2 and 11weeks). IV been with my husband 10 years in August.
He works a Great job and able to support us all ( something we've always discussed and agreed on).
We have our rough patches, he's done a few things that are hard to forgive but we've worked through them.
However the last 4 months or so it's like walking on egg shells with him, he can be very nasty and just snaps and its hard for him to get out of it.
But it's worse because he's started taking it out on my 4year old, for example
He accidentally fell into a mirror which landed on a wall and put a hole in it, I had to take my boy off him because I was scared he was going to throw him down the stairs. This morning they whete playing catch, my son threw it and it hit DH eye and he started screaming at him that he was a fucking bastard. DS ran upstairs and hid.

I can't do it anymore I don't want them growing up with trauma.
However I can't leave, Iv no family, no income, the tenancy is in his name. What can I do :(

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 20/07/2021 15:32

Hello Mylifeisacircus, we're really sorry that you're going through this. Please consider seeking some real life help ASAP. Our Domestic Violence webguide has some useful links so please take a look.

If you feel you or your children are in danger, please call 999. If you're unable to speak, there is more information on the silent solution here.

Best wishes from MNHQ.

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