Me and my husband have been married for almost 3years, together for 7 with some major up and down in between. Since I got pregnant his attitude has completely changed towards me. I'm now 7 and a half months pregnant and after us arguing all the time I just asked what his problem with us being intimate or even cuddling at the moment is cause we are doing non of it. He told me that some men don't find pregnant women attractive and he is one of them, even if I offer a bj or anything he always says no but he will happily watch porn and do his thing. He told me that I just need to deal with it and stop getting upset and anxious over it. Then he said that we can talk about it after the baby comes and I start working on my self a little bit.He has also become super selfish, hes not trying to help me with anything around the house,I don't ever get complemented on anything and just the opposite he never likes anything or says the most fake comments that literally have no meaning to just try make me feel better, he only cares about his feelings and he wants to get everything for himself like sell my car and get a "nice" car for himself? He joined a gym which is great in a way for him but it makes my anxiety go through the roof cause I know he will be looking at all them beautiful women in there and wish I was like them.There is obvieusly a lot of other issues but this is something that hurt me so much that I just don't know how to look past it, did he really need to be so honest? Do I just move on? It's our first baby and I can't see coping by myself with no money or family to turn to but I am so hurt and unhappy I just don't know what to do. I keep thinking of leaving but I literally have no where to go so I'm looking for tips to I guess just get over it for the babies sake. Sorry for a long post but I just need some words of encouragement rather then him being "nice" about it x