Relationship

[SunnyDoomsday]

I’m currently dating my sons father. Our relationship is not perfect but we work on it every day and I love him. He has a few friends and they are close. I’ve met them before and not though much of it. After a recent vacation with them I’ve started having feelings for one. It feels so random, but the more he’s around the more I feel and the worse I feel. I love my boyfriend, I want to spend my life with him but I can’t ignore these feelings and I need to work through them and get past it. I’m ashamed and sad and I don’t know what to do.

It's not a romantic novel. If you want to stay with your boyfriend, you have to ignore the feelings. If not, leave him, and then you can do what you want.

There's nothing to 'work through', Grown ups have relationships during which they sometimes find people other than their partner attractive. You just have to get on with your life and not make a fuss. Unless you want a fuss?

there is nothing to be ashamed of. You are a person not a robot and its normal to have feelings, even the once you don;t want

@Annadmash

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Boundaries are important. Emotions and feelings aren't always meant to be acted on.

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