Just found out partner has been round his ex girlfriends house. Again. Had this before, where we parted and he moved out to rent somewhere else. Promised he would not go round there again and now I've found out. WTAF.
I think he was feeling low on his birthday and wanted some validation from someone who used to care for him - I truly believe this.
I have a quandary though, yes part of me wants to tell him I know, but I have a kitchen that he is putting in for me and it's half done. If I tell him to go, I will have to pay for the work which I can't afford.
What should I do?? Wait till he's done the work or tell him to fuck off now??