Hi all. I'm looking for tips about ending my marriage. I've been married for five years. My husband is a fetishist with a very specific turn on. Long story short, he used porn pretty much very day throughout our marriageable. He used it compulsively in my family home at Christmas. He used it on our honey money (should have left him then...). He lied about it again and a gain and again. After telling him our marriage is almost over, he had a few therapy sessions. He says he's alla different but guess what. He still wanks to fetishist porn every bloody day, i saw him do it just yesterday. He can perform sexually but anything that isn't fetish isn't exciting so we've been having little sex (1-2 a month) and it's been mediocre. He's otherwise an OK husband and a kind person, but I know I won't ever be enough for him him and I don't want want to spend the next 40 years seeing him masturbate to 20 year old rolling in food and mud (that's the fetish). I've had enough. Unfortunately the other men I dated before him also had fetishes, they just didn't hide them that well, so I'm preparing mentally to spend the rest of my life alone (I'm turning 30 this year). Any advice on preparing for for divorce masturbate having the strength to go through with it? It'll entail a lot of emotions and we own a house together (which I furbished singles handedly) .