I’ve been dating a guy for a month now and from the second date he was telling me he loved me which yes I know was too soon, I told him that it wasn’t love and he told me not to dictate his feelings which I never argued with..
Right from the get go he was very intense and passionate about me, crying when he thought I blocked him, I told him a couple weeks in I didn’t want to be with him as I just felt smothered he also cried at that too and I felt bad so I just stayed.. we both booked off a week just to get away for a few days aswell, he spoke about the idea of moving out together after New Years next year.. to which I told him he was rushing and moving way too fast
The last time I seen him I felt I connected with him as he had calmed down and we spoke about everything, all our feelings etc..
We see each other one night and day a week and today he told me one of his days off got moved to a different day which means I can’t see him every week, it’s more like every other week or once a month depending on my shifts..
He’s told me now that he regrets forcing me to love him that he shouldn’t have said he loved me too soon, he regrets talking about moving in together and that he doesn’t really see this working out as we can’t see each other much.. he said we could still be friends in which I said I don’t want to just be friends..
He basically regrets moving too quickly, the holiday is cancelled but I didn’t think that was going ahead anyways as I kept asking him if he booked the hotel and he was always like he’ll do it later or closer to the date..
In all honesty I’m just thinking about calling it quits, I just want to know everyone’s perspective on this and what you think I should do.. Please don’t be mean as it’s not necessary.