I've told him to go!

[MiaMummaCat]

So, I'm just sitting down with a cuppa & I could really do with a hug. I confronted my husband with the fact that I know he's cheating on me, and I want him out of the house. I was calm, polite and quite matter of fact about - I didn't cry, despite my heart beating so fast as I confronted him. I'm feeling quite proud of myself!
I've walked away to another room to allow him time to think about it!
Would very much appreciate some support from you lovely people out there right now! Thank you :) xxx

Oh my goodness shove up and let me sit down. Is he still there? If we listen will we hear him pack and hopefully leave???

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Well done to you, it must have been so hard to keep your cool. That was very classy OP hand hold from me 🤝

I’m sorry you’re going through this

How did you find out?

You got this

Well done you Queen! I only wish I'd been as serene when I did the same. I salute you

You should feel so proud of yourself. It’s him not you.
Do you fancy a caramel twix?

@something2say ah you're lovely

All here for you OP

Well done! I'll bring the biscuits. You sound like you handled it with dignity.

If the arsehole comes in to say anything just tell him there's nothing more to be said, is there? My solicitor will deal with it for me.

Hats off to you OP I can only dream of this strength. When it happened to me I was absolute wet blanket. You are awesome 👏🏻

@MiaMummaCat well done - you're awesome, and worth so much more than that cheating rat! You have your dignity and a lot of support from all of us vipers here! Have a to go with your tea

Good on you OP... Mumsnet needs to read about strong decisive people like you..

Credit to you for not messing around...

Sending support 🌸

Hope you are still ok

Well done op for handling like that ,I wish I was so calm when I did the same , I went bat shit mental and chucked his stuff out lol.
Hand hold from me

Sending hugs 🤗

That was very brave. I remember doing the same almost two years ago. Heart in throat and feeling enormous relief.

You rock.

Shove over - I've brought crisps and a nice chilled (in honour of your super cool management of the situation) bottle of Sancerre.

Kudos for taking action, Mia! I assume this is his online gaming ‘friend.’ I commented on your other thread about them.

I really admire your taking definitive action. Stick to your guns if he tries to manipulate you. Keep updating us.

I did the same OP. Well done! Admittedly mine didn't leave for a couple of weeks, so I had to ask him every night to leave but he did eventually go.

Well done, op, that can't have been easy. You kept your dignity, a class act you are.
Cheers to your future!

Well done.

Well done, OP.
I'm assuming he didn't have much to say for his cheating arse.

Oh you guys! Thank you so much for you support - genuinely helping me :). I feel so much better now, my heart rate has returned to normal, I've drunk my cuppa & have a cat snuggled on my lap (she always knows when I'm not feeling great!).
So I did confront him quite a while ago, but he insisted the "lady" was a good friend (as was her husband - yeah right!).
However, I overheard one of his phone calls with her when he thought I wasn't home :0, he was consoling her after her husband had left her.

I then deliberately listened in to a conversation where it was very obvious that he had had "sexual relations" with her.
I've gone through the hurt & anger stages and I just want rid of him now!
Thank you all so much xxxxx