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Affair?

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Just71 · 29/04/2021 22:47

So I need advice! My husband does interim work and pre-lockdown was working away from home for 2 or 3 nights a week. I had no issue with this at all. I work full time too but we managed to sort ourselves out so we could each spend time with our son and do school pick ups etc.

Yesterday however, I got a letter in the post saying that my husband has cheated on me and as soon as lockdown is over he will be at it again. I didn’t share it with him as I wanted to spend some time thinking about what to do. Then today I got another letter with a lot more detail. It essentially says that he was shagging multiple women while working away and will be doing the same again once lockdown is over.

What would you do with this information. I can’t decide whether to confront him or to keep it to myself for now and try to find some evidence, or not, as the case may be. I assume if I confront him he will deny it even if it is true. So that will leave me more unsure about what to do...

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Thewookiemustgo · 09/05/2021 15:24

Sorry OP. The second phone isn’t a good sign, especially if he claimed to have lost it. I know from my own experience.
Take care, I hope it turns out ok for you X

Peckhaminn · 29/01/2023 10:43

Hi OP. any update?

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