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Dating a man 15 years younger

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Heidi3333 · 28/04/2021 12:29

Hi ladies

I have a date tomorrow with a guy 15 years younger than me. I met him online and we have been chatting for a few weeks. I'm sooo nervous.

He looks gorgeous in his photos and he says he likes older women (I'm 45) but find it hard to believe a young hot guy would in interested in dating someone my age?!

Has anyone dated a toy boy with such a big age gap? How it did go?

Thanks

OP posts:
bonfireheart · 01/05/2021 14:47

@wdmtthgcock it's like "the dog ate my homework"

Heidi3333 · 01/05/2021 22:44

He provided a picture of his dog bites so it does seem genuine but it could be an old picture. He has went cold since so I suspect it was an excuse. If it was genuine then surely he'd be tripping over himself to reschedule? X

OP posts:
StarlightLady · 02/05/2021 06:08

OP, it does sound a little odd, but I’d be tempted to give him the benefit of the doubt for now, but with caution.

As for the age difference, l think it depends on whether you are looking for LTR or fun.

I am just slightly younger than you. I once met someone much younger than me, who said he liked older women because when younger looking good more or less came naurally, when older it was all about making an effort. There was never going to be anything long term or serious in it. But someone else, probably younger, will benefit from my bed trainng. As did he.

Snapbacktonormality · 02/05/2021 06:44

I think you need to write this one off OP. If he was bitten on a job but only cancelled an hour before you were due to meet but had literally just been bitten, was he planning on turning up in his work clothes? In fairness I was bitten by a dog but only sought medical attention the following day after advice from my neighbour, so it may be that he was planning to meet having been bitten some time before but then realised the bite was worse than he thought. If that was the case though and he’d been bitten a day or some hours before, he’d have told you as conversation point. Onto the next OP!

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