On the same subject there's a tricky situation that's arose that I'm not sure how to handle we have a next door neighbour who I've never liked as she's a gossip but my mothers friends with her.
Last week I was out for just over an hr before I left mum was settled I came home just over an hr later and she had had a panic attack shouting for help the neighbor had a go at me for leaving her alone.
Now she comes round every few days asks mum if there's anything she needs saying she will get it making it it seem like she's calling the shots and I'm expected to be with her 24 7 last night neighbour was in my mother had cut her arm she had been wandering around at night in her room which she sometimes does and managed to cut her arm neighbour asked how she got it mum didn't answer as she's confused I said she must of hurt herself during night when she got up I then went to get mum a fresh blanket as soon as I left room I heard neighbour ask mum who did that to you?
When I came back with blanket there were questions asked about rings my mum used to wear I told her they kept coming off due to her losing weight then mum because she's confused has been saying for last few days that this isn't her home she wants to go home she started going on like this when neighbour was in this convinced neighbour that somebody was trying to take the house off her and wanted to know where the title deeds were its become obvious that this friend sits back does nothing happy to let me do it all yet all she can do is stir.
I don't know how to handle her, any suggestions would be appreciated